I'LL NEVER DO A TRIATHLON
Someone asked me about 7 weeks ago if I would ever do a triathlon. "No way. Never!" was my reply. I am a terrible swimmer, long distance running has only created injuries in my past, and I didn't even own a road bike. Lots of great excuses.
Lesson Learned: Stop and listen to the excuses you are making. You've likely convinced yourself that they're valid, and they're probably not. If you really want something, it's amazing how the insurmountable excuses quickly disappear because you decide it's time to remove them from your psyche.
EXCUSE #1 - NO ROAD BIKE
After training for and completing a 54-mile backpacking trip earlier this summer (yes, I had done a backpacking trip like it before), my wife asked what I planned for my next big activity/goal that would motivate me to keep training. I considered her question and reflected on my exercise activities over the last 6 months...a ton of time on a stationary bike at the gym. I have friends that own real bikes. They ride outside. They ride in casual and competitive races/events. Maybe I should do one of those. After all, I always enjoyed cycling when I was younger. So I decided to try road biking, bought a used one 6.5 weeks ago, and I can't believe I didn't do it years earlier.
Lesson Learned: Don't be so stubborn or convinced that your current path is the right one that you fail to do what it takes to be on the best path for you, your business, your family, or whatever else is important to you.
All that training on the stationary bike transferred pretty nicely to a real bike...I did rides of both 50 and 60 miles within my first 3 weeks of bike ownership! I plan to do a century (100 mile ride) at the beginning of spring 2014, if not sooner.
Lesson Learned: Whatever you are doing now will likely provide a foundation for you in whatever the next phase of your life will be...so put everything you have into what you are doing today...it's the foundation of your future.
EXCUSE #2 - I AM A TERRIBLE SWIMMER
Purchasing a bike turned me into an avid participant in the sport overnight. With my new-found love of outdoor biking, two of my sons and I decided to become a relay team in a local Triathlon for a great cause, the Share a Smile Foundation, put on by Dr. Eric Vogel and the rest of his amazing team. I would do the cycling part, and they would cover the swim and run. So we decided to go to the pool and see how all of us did at swimming. To say "I tried" to swim is a stretch...I almost didn't make just one 25-meter length of the pool, and those who witnessed the spectacle affectionately named my stroke: "Spaz". My two boys felt strong enough in the swim that they quickly ditched our relay team idea in favor of competing individually in all three sports...the entire triathlon. That left me without a team, and the big hurdle of getting proficient enough at swimming to compete individually, too. Four weeks later I completed my first triathlon, with the swim being the part I feared the most.
Lesson Learned: The only way to truly and completely overcome your fears is to stare them right in the face and do whatever it takes to conquer them. For me it took 4 nights a week in the pool for at least 45 minutes doing drills and swimming laps, and even finding some open water for a practice session.
EXCUSE #3 - I'M NOT BUILT FOR RUNNING AND IT'S CAUSED INJURIES IN THE PAST
I've had spurts in my life when I have tried to be a consistent runner. But I either over-trained and injured myself or I blindly accepted medical advice to wear foot orthotics or do other things that ultimately created new problems and injuries. With a need to run a 5k to finish the triathlon, I finally took ownership of my problems. I read everything I could on my injuries and realized I had been given and was following some pretty bad advice, and I implemented a plan that, after doing my homework, I knew would work for me.
Lesson Learned: Lots of people will profess to be experts and tell you what to do. Ultimately you are still the owner of the outcomes, and you have to decide what is best for you.
In the short time we had to prepare, my sons and I tried to consume as much material as we could about triathlons. Books, blogs, youtube videos...whatever we could find. All of the resources we encountered stressed the need to prepare for the two critical transitions...swim-to-bike and bike-to-run. Precious time is often lost by those who do not prepare sufficiently. So, the night before the race, we set up a mock transition area and practiced each of the transitions, carefully placing each piece of equipment and article of clothing in their optimal location for the most efficient transition possible. We weren't perfect, but the race went so much smoother because we were ready for the transitions.
Lesson Learned: There is no way to avoid transitions in life, including our careers, families, and relationships. Each transition we face will be a little easier if we've thought and planned ahead as much as possible.
Here are the unofficial results of a 400m pool swim, 11.2 mile bike ride, and a 5k run (I was handed this as I crossed the finish line).
finished 14th overall and 9th in my age category. You can see all of my final event and transition times HERE. Both of my sons finished well and had great experiences with the sport, just one more way to stay connected in their lives doing something we all enjoy. Yes, I am already signed up for my second triathlon (and so are my boys). This one will be a full Sprint Tri with a 750m open-water swim...Kokopelli on Sept 14th.
Lesson Learned: Don't stop trying new things. In less than 60 days I see the world and my life from a much broader perspective, and we can all benefit from more breadth and depth in our perspectives!